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I'm not surprised by the result, but I'm not sure what about it reads as "hypocrisy" to you, or to the authors of the paper. Single men are often looking for relationships, which are most likely going to arise from existing acquaintances. Married men, by contrast, are not "in the market for a new relationship," so they're more likely to look at strangers. For a single straight guy, looking at random friends-of-friends-of-friends who live in another city would be wasted time, and you'd expect them to do less of it.

In other words, the result of the study are exactly what you'd expect to see if people were doing exactly what they say they're doing.

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