You speak of a long-vanished period (19th c.), when cultures were homogeneous and values were shared.Multiculti destroyed all that, so a shared culture is a fantasy, unfortunately.
Do you think that pointing out idealistic reasons also appeals to others' far mode inclinations? They might be more willing to take advice that they personally find less practical if you present it to them with far mode implications. Changing opinions seems like something we can constantly come up with near mode reasons to avoid (even if the reasons aren't all that good).
Somehere a while back I saw reference to a study that showed if you presented people with a presumption of idealistic behavior, they actually would tend to behave more idealistically.
You speak of a long-vanished period (19th c.), when cultures were homogeneous and values were shared.Multiculti destroyed all that, so a shared culture is a fantasy, unfortunately.
There is a shout out to Dale Carnegie in jonathan haidt's new book.
Do you think that pointing out idealistic reasons also appeals to others' far mode inclinations? They might be more willing to take advice that they personally find less practical if you present it to them with far mode implications. Changing opinions seems like something we can constantly come up with near mode reasons to avoid (even if the reasons aren't all that good).
Somehere a while back I saw reference to a study that showed if you presented people with a presumption of idealistic behavior, they actually would tend to behave more idealistically.
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What does how to gain friends say about its time that would not hold true today?