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I'm struck by how the first paragraph distinguishes between societies in the past and in the present, while the second paragraph distinguishes between poor societies and rich societies. But it's not true to say that Rich=Advanced and Poor=Backward, however easy a myth that may be. Not that I disagree with the argument of the post, though.

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I think "manhood" generally really means "being a high status male". A lot of the traits considered necessary for being a "real man" is only really possible if you're actually near the top of the food chain. For instance, being confident and assertive for a low status man is really difficult for a low status man modulo drugs or some sort of pathology.

Other traits considered masculine are traits relating to relative capacity for violence. Size is very important, but it seems to be in relative terms rather than absolute. It is more important that a man is bigger than other men than any specific measurement.

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Let's see what happens if we divide gender differences into possibly useful (pushing women to be nurturing and men to be stoic), probably neutral (women wear brighter colors than men), and peacock's tail (women pushed to be extremely thin, men pushed to be extremely muscular).

It's plausible that poorer societies will have more practical gender distinctions. In particular, they're less likely to push any trait to extremes.

For example, a lot of women suffer from extreme perfectionism. It's plausible that a poorer society would focus on doing one's tasks well enough to get good results rather than having standards which are impossible to achieve.

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Rationality is associated with masculinity, as is playing russian roulette. And yet I strongly suspect that playing russian roulette is not rational according to the value systems possessed by most men. Masculinity is not consistent and therefore likely undefinable.

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Another possibility is that the power of the media is much greater in richer nations and the media certainly reinforce gender stereotypes.

Its an interesting article but is not by itself conclusive.

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Or rather, it steadily deteriorates after its early peak, rather than being as volatile as a man's; with effort a woman may fight the decay and slow the decline, but she's still creeping downhill.

Reminds me a little bit of differences in class mobility. (As an unremarkable-looking woman, chasing the masculine dream doesn't sound so bad.)

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here is the paper.

It observes the effect Phil Goetz predicts: "traditional values" are correlated with low sex differences, but it says this is independent of the wealth effect.

I find bizarre the claim that Africa is the part of the world where men are more conscientious than women.

Here's a hypothesis I think is worth airing, though I don't think it's the answer here: the five factor model is derived from (fairly uniform) rich countries and it may not be appropriate to poor countries. eg, they may have other traits that they care about and use to display sex differences.

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An example is foot binding in China. Accentuates the differences. Culture works to emphasize dimorphic character.

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Why did this more egalitarian arrangement develop first in the West? More gains from cooperation within marriage? Greater economic independence or interdependence? Enhanced or reduced parental control? Religious influence?

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Well, the risk-taking behavior of men designed to win mates does kill a proportion of them, so when it comes to personal sacrifices to attract a mate, there's always that.

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"in fact, poor cultures can't afford very distinct genders"Is it a fact? What does "poor" mean ? There are a very few places on this planet where small groups of people still live a materially deficient existence. Studies of these people find very distinct gender roles. Look around the planet. Gender roles seem well defined in virtually every culture. In recent times there has been some blurring of role assignment in European societies, but this change comes by breaking age old encrusted traditions.Your attempt to paint an more gender-egalitarian portriat of the past fails. Progress for women in the marketplace has come from recognizing and attacking long held and accepted barriers.

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Possibly as societies develop there is a change from gender roles based on activities to ones based on personalities; as the complexity of society increases, and the distinction between what work or leisure or culture males or females can participate in becomes blurred, masculinity or femininity is expressed more in how various are performed (ie. personality) than in which activities are performed.

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Masculine and feminine roles are more clear-cut in less-developed societies. Primitive societies typically (and when I say "typically" I actually mean "without exception so far as I know out of the hundred or so I have looked into") have ironclad (stoneclad?) rules about which gender can do what activities. (Yes, there are groups in which one could opt to adopt the other gender's activities. But none that I know of in which you can do both.)

I would need more data to be convinced. You wrote above, "The data: ... Changes in men’s personality traits appeared to be the primary cause of sex difference variation across cultures." That's not data. That's a reference to data.

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Right, a man's "sexiness" can easily go up or down depending on the circumstance. A woman's, however, is fairly constant.

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Depending on how long ago "the distant past" was, you may have overstated the case. The change from masculine men and feminine women likely occurred when humanity developed from hunter-gatherer to agricultural. Hunter-gatherer life required masculine men to hunt and fight, and comparatively feminine women for child raising and sundry activities; agricultural life required far less masculinity in men (the reduction in femininity required in women was probably less, and possibly negative). Yet modern man still retains hunter-gatherer genes, and thus desires to express more masculinity than agricultural life finds optimal. Such masculine expression becomes a luxury good; men desire to do it, and women find it attractive in men, yet it is costly, and so occurs more in richer nations who can bear the cost.

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Re-reading your post, it doesn't explicitly suggest that men feel "more pressure," as much as that male status is "more precarious."

My above post doesn't appreciate this. If femininity is associated more so with certain physical attributes, then this does seem "less precarious," at least insofar as one ignores aging. A physically attractive women can probably be more assured that, whatever situation she enters, her "femininity" will be appreciated. Insofar as men rely less on physical appearance to convey masculinity, they have to establish masculinity by less readily appreciated means in every new situation.

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