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Daniel Melgar's avatar

Adam Smith wrote about being “loved and lovely” in his Theory of Moral Sentiments. Smith was writing about the two halves of self-esteem—being self-efficacious and being worthy of admiration. I think that men of dominance and rank pursue being loved with different views of self-esteem.

The men of dominance don’t understand the second half (being lovely); they are driven by only power for its own sake. The men of rank want both parts but only some truly deserve to be loved and to be found lovely. Most view their rank as the actual value or object of their journey. Only a select few accept their rank as a deserved status, a byproduct of their admirable works.

Many men of prestige will only be known by a small number of people (their families, friends and local communities). Some get elevated to a rank, not by design or intention, but by the insistence of those who admire their values. Some will never fully appreciate how important their lives were and are to not only the smallest group but to the world—How many great parents are responsible for producing good human beings who go on to advance their local communities and by extension the greater society.

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Jerdle's avatar

Rank is a form of dominance. It's less directly threatening, but the looming power of the institution is still power.

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