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Xaria's avatar

Sorry to be late to the discussion, I only just discovered this blog. As a female, I must say it is unexpected but rather refreshing to find a discussion taking place largely amongst men, which is pondering the utility of men's very existence.

However, I don't think the answer to the question is very difficult to find. My take on why males exist:

1. Diversity: if women get to choose which men to mate with (believe me it's not a given that the woman always gets her choice!), they can choose the best available genes to produce offspring. The choice can be adjusted for the environment/circumstances they find themselves in, so it allows the species to adapt more quickly. Diversity of selection strengthens the survival chances of the species.

2. Usefulness: Having husbands/fathers around can be very useful. On average, men are larger, stronger and faster. If they act in the interest of the family as a whole, they can contribute great value for many practical matters. This is clearly an aid to survival of the species.

(Note: best providers of genes and best husbands/fathers are not necessarily the same group, thus we see some men nurturing other men's genetic offspring).

3. Women like men and enjoy their company: despite what men may think, women do actually like men when they are behaving like reasonable human beings. Women place great value on the love, affection, romance, empathy, understanding etc to be found in a good partner. Whilst I'm not sure how to quantify this in terms of how it aids the survival of the species, it is one of the things that makes that survival worthwhile. Perhaps we can say it gives the species the will to live, because it makes life enjoyable. (The question of whether there is any point in surviving simply for the sake of survival itself could perhaps be debated elsewhere....)

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Dimorphism came from natural selection, which resulted in a species that made it to the top of the food chain, and we've kept that status ever since.

It didn't happen because we were the biggest and baddest. It happened because of our social ability, our intelligence - and, including but not limited to, features of brain cells in our limbic system that would shut down when facing danger, allowing our crowning evolutionary achievement of executive function to don the day. The fact we're philosophizing and intellectualizing our own existence is evidence of our uniqueness that put us on top.

We're all human animals, female, male, androgynous alike, whether we like it or not. But we're unique enough it's really a waste of time to engage in comparing us to other species at such fundamental levels, especially those species at the bottom of the food chain. However, we still suffer heuristic, cognitive and social biases, and thinking errors from the animal within.

Dimorphism was essential to survival and our social nature survival during the Stone Age. The problem is although we're out of the Stone Age, it is still within us. Even our dimorphism is obsolete.

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