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I don't know about the evolutionary history of it, but as a social convention it's bunk. This is one area where I most loathe moralizers; the pretentiousness of the value-ape is unbounded when it comes to sex.

I personally could not give two shits in a bucket about the success or future of mankind. They're all a bunch of twats, anyway.

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just came upon your blog.

On monogamy It seems based on the representation of variety in our DNA that male vs. female "effective population size," suggests that Polygyny was the norm. since that most men throughout human evolution never reproduced and, in strictly genetic terms, had mysteriously vanished without a trace.

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Bigger brain, smaller jaw, loss of canines - I prefer this guy's hypothesis.

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The difference in average sizes of men and women tells us that human species historically was not completely monogamous. The species that are monogamous ("mate for life"), such as wolves, geese etc., have males and females of nearly identical size. The completely polygamous, where the dominant males appropriate 'harems', have vastly different sizes - gorillas are an example. Humans fall somewhere in between the two extremes of complete monogamy and the 'harem' arrangement.

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But I did discuss the dependence on the shape of the demographic distribution! In a 50/50 society monogamy always prevails!

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Uhh, it seems to me this argument is totally backwards.

The reason monogomy is important on your account is because it reduces the level of competition/violence inside a group. Yet, it seems to be that the reason that (open) non-monogomy is on the rise is largely because the violence has been so effectively controlled.

If we ever start to slide back to a state where men fight duels because someone stole their girlfriend people will return to greater monogomy.

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If you are concerned about monogamy and different sexualities than in EEA shouldn't you be more concerned with contraception? It allows heterosexual sex without babies and thus totally changes the game.

Also don't most studies point to a direction of monogamous pairing with lots of cheating. Wouldn't requiring paternity tests also change the game in "unnatural" ways.

If the issue is men ending up single, shouldn't we promote polyamorous relationships or some form of polyandry?

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But is it monogamy as such or stable families? In a sense, if every male know which females are his and which are his neighbour’s that would also make it so much easier to maintain peace and produce the claimed adaptations.

Its many things, but simply having each male know which females are his leads to disaster in a 50/50 male/female population. Take an extreme example- our society has decided that only men with a net worth of > 10 million dollars can reproduce. Women may freely choose any man to mate within this group and every other man works to support this situation. On the surface this seems like a plausible way to select for the traits that make successful individuals- but you get massive gambling addicts in the future. What happens is that any steady, hard working lower class person has a near zero chance of passing on his genes while his crazy, compulsive gambling neighbor could win the lottery/go on a hot run in vegas/win the trifecta and get to pass his genes along. Gambling becomes a far better strategy and it gets passed on into the gene pool.

That sounds like a bizarre and unrealistic example- but in a 50/50 society polygamy automatically leaves explicit losers in the gene leaving race (its even worse when males can reproduce indefinitely but women have a cut off point). If there are 50 males and 50 females and 1 male has 2 wives then 1 male has to have none. Then that last male has a huge incentive to steal a wife, or murder another man, and those kinds of activities create conflict. If 1 man has 10 wives then there are 9 buys out there with tons of sexual energy and all the genetic incentive to start murdering/stealing wives.

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Actually, as haplodiploids (which gives rise to greater relatedness) workers can have male offspring without being fertilized. This is typically done by descendants of a previous queen who aren't interested in the general welfare of the colony under the new queen.

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Please don't mix fats and sugars.

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I understand what you are saying about the group level of selection and in theory it could work. But bonobos, like all promiscuous species, have a high reproductive skew in males. That means that bonobo males generally direct their energies to keeping low status males away from females. Meanwhile low status males direct their energies to sneaking around and finding a female on the sly.

Ants and other eusocial species have an even higher reproductive skew. But they are true group selectionists with separate reproductive and working castes. Workers in a eusocial species have no option of diverting energy into the reproductive arena. Thus they work hard for the group because all other choices have essentially been permanently removed from the table.

Monogamy is a different (and more egalitarian) method of accomplishing the same goal. They both have very strong ex ante boundaries of reproductive access. For members of a working caste in a eusocial species the boundary is "you will never reproduce". For monogamy the boundary is one partner. But either way, if these ex ante boundaries are strong then people will work at the group level rather than becoming status-seeking free riders.

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The problem with bonobos is that disguised paternity also means that males do not have an incentive to contribute to the group.

On the contrary, the most peculiar thing about (systematically) disguised paternity is all males are genetically incented to cooperate towards the same group goal. It's a form of higher-level selection--sort of like the worker ants in a colony. You're not going to see anything like this with chimps or humans.

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Robin - I suggest you take a look at this alternative theory by Paul Bingham. It suggests a much cleaner game theoretic approach to human evolution:

Social cooperation between non-kin evolved out of violence, specifically from evolving the ability to throw, and kill from a distance.

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There are reasons to be skeptical of Lovejoy's thesis. He's been pushing for years before this evidence came in.

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The primatologist Frans DeWaal makes a similar point in Our Inner Ape which is a running comparison of humans with chimps and bonobos. Chimps do not have disguised fertility so there is heightened male violence and aggression in order to control sexual access to female. Even though chimps generally have to form coalitions to seize power, the alpha male takes the lion's share of sexual access. Bonobos do have disguised fertility which reduces the incentive for males to fight to become alpha. Females are dominant. But they are not egalitarian. They seek status in the social arena and the alpha females secure the most food for their offspring.

The problem with bonobos is that disguised paternity also means that males do not have an incentive to contribute to the group. Instead they are fairly indolent and rely on handouts of food from females.

Promiscuous sexuality is like being a free rider on society. You can maximize your own reproductive success, but to the extent that a society is promiscuous males will tend to disengage from contributing to the cooperative surplus of society and instead invest their time and energy into gaining sexual access to females.

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Monogamy was the de-facto situation for the vast majority of people. Only the richest could afford multiple wives. Additionally, only men were permitted to have multiple partners in most polygynous societies.

The important trait is that in nearly all societies (including, for example, polygamous Islam), a man could be reasonably certain that a certain subset of women were having sex only with him and that their children were his.

I believe it might be the decline of this trait that Robin is concerned about.

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