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Overcoming Bias Commenter's avatar

The trick is that those near-mode urges don't have to be abstract to coincide with far mode ideals. It could even be as simple as the person in near mode only caring about coming across as someone who does a lot with far mode ideals. On the other hand there's the "good person", the personality type that really gets near mode satisfaction from helping people or working for a cause: if raising orphans brings me joy because it appeals to my strong paternal instincts then I can effortlessly work towards my far mode ideals regarding orphans even when I'm in near mode. I don't even have to stumble upon it: when I'm in far mode I can force myself to look for an activity that conforms to my far ideals and gives me near satisfaction. With your background I suppose you could answer the question of whether cognitive therapy could make a person enjoy something in near mode that they didn't enjoy previously.

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Stephen Diamond's avatar

You're merely playing on the vagueness of "better."

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